Priscilla Asked: Is there such a thing as being "cursed" in finding love?

I'm 30 years old and never been in a serious relationship, when I do met a guy/go out with a guy/date-heends up not being interested in me for some reason. I try sooo hard to look my best, to act like a lady, act mature, etc, etc..nothing works…A few months ago, I went to a psychic fair and got a pendulum reading-I asked the lady if I was ever going to find someone…she said that I might have someone before March…but so far, I haven't met anyone..I also asked her if I was going to get married, the look at her face didn't look reassuring…What is the deal here? Why can't I find love right away like other people? That's pretty sad that even a psychic would hint that I won't meet anyone anytime soon..Am I cursed?