Butterfly Asked: I told my husband a family secret. I feel he no longer sees me the same way.?

I never told my husband how my father really died. My father took his own life, and I buried that secret within my heart for 17 years. I never shared it with anyone, it remained within the family.I was scared to share it with people b/c of the taboo and stigma associated with it. I did not want to be judged ever by it.I buried my feelings and continued on with my life.I met a wonderful warm hearted man, we dated a little more than 1 year.I fell in love with him and we married. I never shared with him the real reason my dad passed away for the same reasons stated above.During the beginning of our marriage, there were many times when I tried to form the words, the courage, to tell my husband about my father, but I failed every time. I couldn't bare the weight of carrying this on my own anymore. I wanted openness, but I was still too afraid to talk about it.I shut this in me for 17 years. How easy was it going to be to let it out?One day, my husband asked me to hear a tape from a psychic that he had went to (without my knowledge).I was angry that he went without telling me, but that all changed after what I heard on that tape.The psychic was conveying my father's message that he was sorry for what he had done. I lost it and started to cry hysterically.At that point, I told my husband about my father and how he died.He comforted me and held me and asked me why I never told him.We are now trying to have a family of our own, however, we have not been lucky in that arena, and it is straining our relationship b/c still we have no children.My husband is not happy with his job or where we live.Several months have passed since I told my husband about my father, he now tells me that he loves me, but that he feels slighted b/c I never had the trust to tell him.That he deserved to know about it.He feels that there was(is) no trust in our marriage.I feel that my husband sees me in a different light now. I think I made a big mistake to tell him. What was I to do? I was expecting that my husband tell me that it is all in the past, that he understands why I never told me b/c I was afraid.But those were not his words, he told me that he loves me, but he feels slighted b/c I never trusted him enough to tell him. He is now disappointed in me.I thought love was unconditional.Can anyone shed some light on this for my sanity?