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casey o Answered:
He needs to get over it, and you two seriously need to go to counseling. Make an appointment.

Dizzyagedperson Answered:
Your husband is certainly feeling hurt and probably letdown.When we fall in love with someone we tend to assume that over time all our secrets will be shared.You need to try to explain to him that it was not because you didn't trust him with the information, but that it was something so personal and so painful that you buried it so deep in an effort to, shall we say, put it behind you.I feel sure that your husband does still love you but is probably feeling a little bruised right now.Whilst he should be making every effort to understand your reasons you should also probably be making every effort to alleviate his hurst and disappointment and make him feel truly loved and trusted.The fact that he is disappointed in you is for him to deal with and to get over on his terms, all you can do is carry on as normal and don't let is become and issue.But it is very important that you keep communication channels open without laying blame at anyone's door.If you can't get over this by doing the above then perhaps counselling may help.It is also important when talking that you are both completely honest with each other.

Ouragon Answered:
Psychics are charletans. My sister worked as a "psychic" and laughed wildly at the stupid things she told people. You heard what you wanted to hear from the one your husband went to.

Suicide has no where near the stigma that you attach to it. Your husband is also being weird about you not telling him. It's clear that you were right not to tell him if this is his reaction.

Love between adults is NOT unconditional. The way you behave can change how your husband treats you. Try cheating on him and see how unconditionally he loves you.

It sounds like the two of you could use some therapy to get your expectations in line with reality.

the dude Answered:
I can sort of see where he is coming from, but he also needs to understand why you kept it inside. Counseling would work well, since neither of you will be able to communicate freely over the subject by yourselves. Good luck with that.

James Matthiessen Answered:
I dont know how everything is going with you guys but not telling him wasnt wrong at all! I myself have tried overdosing and that God it did not work! But when someone in your family does something like that I know how it feals to be mad/hurt/sad/confused/blamed. All the emotions going on all at once will last for a long time, posibly forever, and it is confusing.All that confusion WIll keep you from saying anything to anybody. It may not be that you didnt trust him to see though it, it may have jsut been the fear or acually getting it out in the open masked as distrust. Your Mind will automaticly make it hard for you to release those words because it will make you relive it. I Have to relive it everytime I have to go to a hospital and they ask me about it and Every employer that has seen my records. I know how hard it is to tell someone about this subject whether it be a spouse, co-worker, or family. Do not be ashamed or scared to tell anybody. It is in the past, It happened, It Is sad. But we learn from it, we learn to love and we learn how to be loved. I know he still loves you, He did marry you for you. He may be disapionted in you but that too will pass. I will have to tell my daughter one day that i tryed to leave her when she was 1 month old, and that would have never knew me if it had worked. But **** happens and people screw up. But we are loved no matter our past. . .

azbdf Answered:
What a burden you carried for all those years.Do you believe it about the psychic or did your husband find out and used the psychic as his way of getting you to tell him. Everything else you've said suggests to me that he found out your secret somehow and knew you would react to a psychic's message.I may be wrong, but I don't really believe in messages from the 'other side' especially those conveyed through so-called mediums, but I defend your right to believe in them.You are right on another point, you marry someone warts and all. I am sure there must be many things he hasn't told you, maybe not big secrets, but I bet not everything that perhaps he should have done.Hopefully in time your husband will get over the slight he feels.Good luck and very best wishes for the future.